{"id":7454,"date":"2017-04-24T05:54:56","date_gmt":"2017-04-24T05:54:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/meetingpoint-int.org\/?p=7454"},"modified":"2024-10-11T10:11:19","modified_gmt":"2024-10-11T10:11:19","slug":"while-many-were-fleeing-we-stayed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/meetingpoint-int.org\/home\/2017\/04\/24\/while-many-were-fleeing-we-stayed\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2018While many were fleeing, we stayed\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/meetingpoint-int.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/1493027240_tmp_IMG_046.jpg\" alt=\"1493027240_tmp_IMG_046\" class=\"wp-image-2024\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p><em>\u2018While many were fleeing, we stayed\u2019<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>During the outbreak of war in 1986, many people fled Gulu in Northern Uganda because of the Lord\u2019s Resistance Army (LRA). The new<a><\/a>s about the rebels began like a rumor, so few people were skeptical about the rebels because they couldn\u2019t believe it was true and those who believed wouldn\u2019t think that the war would&nbsp;pass by their&nbsp;villages.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We heard women were being raped, robbed and people\u2019s mouths were&nbsp;being&nbsp;cut off, young ones were&nbsp;being&nbsp;taken to fight for the rebels.&nbsp;Confusion started in our village&nbsp;too, people started fleeing the village, one by one until when the entire village was empty. We started hearing&nbsp;weirdsound of screams&nbsp;in the nearby villages, my mother and sister were too scared so fled with people but my father&nbsp;and I&nbsp;remained because my father was sure the rebels wouldn\u2019t reach our village.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Like any other morning when&nbsp;my&nbsp;father and I were&nbsp;sited&nbsp;under&nbsp;a mango tree,&nbsp;we&nbsp;heard some voices of people approaching, we run in the house but it was too late since they had already seen&nbsp;us. They pulled both of us&nbsp;outside and&nbsp;they beheaded him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Witnessing what had happened, I was told to sit down and they put my&nbsp;father\u2019s head in my arms, I began&nbsp;trembling in fear of being raped or&nbsp;killed.&nbsp;They entered the house, robbed us and left me alone sitted with my father\u2019s head.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I neither remember the day nor the time when I suddenly heard voices. A&nbsp;huge&nbsp;crowd&nbsp;was approaching; I thought&nbsp;to myself \u201care the rebels coming back?\u201d&nbsp;I had not eaten and drunk in a long time. After witnessing my father\u2019s death, I couldn\u2019t see anything. In a dizzy way,&nbsp;I&nbsp;saw a woman lifting my father\u2019s head from my arms, screaming and people&nbsp;were&nbsp;surrounding&nbsp;us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When the war&nbsp;had been pushed too&nbsp;far from my village, my mother heard of a job in town, which&nbsp;required only girls to work as&nbsp;housemaids;&nbsp;I was given a job and it was during my stay in town that I met a man whom later I began to stay with. He&nbsp;was moved to&nbsp;western Uganda, a place called Kasese, where we&nbsp;lived for two years.&nbsp;It was&nbsp;there where I got my&nbsp;first pregnancy and gave birth to a healthy child.&nbsp;We decided to take the baby&nbsp;to my village for&nbsp;my mother&nbsp;to seehim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\" id=\"attachment_2029\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/meetingpoint-int.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/1493028291_tmp_IMG_0471-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"1493028291_tmp_IMG_0471\" class=\"wp-image-2029\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Oola Rose\u2019s Home<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Upon my arrival, I found out that&nbsp;my mother had died one month earlier, I&nbsp;busted&nbsp;into tears,&nbsp;and I&nbsp;hoped that she could&nbsp;had seen&nbsp;my child. I found my sister&nbsp;bedridden with HIV\/AIDS,&nbsp;laying&nbsp;half-dead. I told myself,&nbsp;\u201cMaybe if I had stayed home, nothing&nbsp;would&nbsp;have happened.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When my sister died, we decided to return&nbsp;to&nbsp;Kasese. In 2002, we moved to Kampala&nbsp;and&nbsp;by then we had four children; my husband was working as a&nbsp;Boda Boda motorcyclist (carrying people on a motorcycle for a pay). The income wasn\u2019t enough, so I tried all kinds&nbsp;of jobs but failed, and I became miserable, began working in stone quarries. Until one day when I passed by Meeting Point International, seeing very happy women sitting,&nbsp;making beads.&nbsp;I began admiring to be like&nbsp;them.&nbsp;Since some of them knew me from the quarry they invited me to stay with themat&nbsp;Meeting Point International (MPI),&nbsp;with&nbsp;the&nbsp;other women, with the promise that I would&nbsp;be happy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When I joined&nbsp;MPI,&nbsp;my&nbsp;four children began attending school with the help of Aunt&nbsp;Rose \u2013 executive director.&nbsp;I began to feel at peace with myself so I continued working in the stone quarry happily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After having seen what Meeting Point International&nbsp;was&nbsp;doing in educating&nbsp;me about my value , I discovered the value of&nbsp;my children,&nbsp;as&nbsp;a parent,&nbsp;I desired to&nbsp;participate in my children\u2019s&nbsp;education by giving a small&nbsp;saving&nbsp;box to the school&nbsp;were my children are attending&nbsp;since it was very difficult&nbsp;for me to save at home.&nbsp;So that every morning, I could give my children the little I get from quarry to put in that box. In this way I can contribute to my children\u2019s education. I started by giving&nbsp;at least 1000shillings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>&nbsp;Rose, 37 Years Old (MPI Women )<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>by Lumanyika Jude<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>04.04.2017<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2018While many were fleeing, we stayed\u2019 During the outbreak of war in 1986, many people fled Gulu in Northern Uganda because of the Lord\u2019s Resistance Army (LRA). 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